20 July 2024

The realities of life - perception is in control

 What is your perception? Is it in line with the general public.

According to us at #changinglife it can happen that we perceive the situation wrong at that understanding become the perception of the masses. Then in that case how will we move forward for the better.

In reality, is my understanding wrong or correct?


Let's explores the differences between how things appear to individuals and how they actually are. This dichotomy is significant in various contexts such as psychology, philosophy, media, and social interactions. Here's a detailed look at the distinction:

Perception is the process through which individuals interpret sensory information to understand their environment. This process is influenced by:

1. Sensory Input: Information gathered through the senses (sight, sound, touch, taste, smell).
2. Cognitive Processes: Interpretation of sensory input based on previous experiences, beliefs, and expectations.
3. Emotional State: Feelings and moods can affect how we perceive things.
4. Cultural and Social Context: Background and societal norms can shape perception.

Reality refers to the state of things as they actually exist, independent of individual perceptions. It is:

1. Objective: Exists independently of human thoughts and beliefs.
2. Observable: Can be measured and verified through empirical methods.
3. Consistent: Does not change based on individual perspectives.

For an example:

1. Optical Illusions: These demonstrate how visual perception can be misleading. For instance, two lines of the same length might appear different due to their surrounding context.

2. Social Media: People's online personas often present an idealized version of their lives, which can differ significantly from their real-life experiences and struggles.

3. Cognitive Biases: Biases like confirmation bias (favoring information that confirms preexisting beliefs) and the Dunning-Kruger effect (overestimating one's competence) show how perceptions can diverge from reality.

In all spheres of life there are variable, we can say in,

1. Psychology: Understanding perception and/or reality can help in addressing mental health issues, as individuals' perceptions of themselves or their situations can be distorted.
   
2. Philosophy: Philosophers debate the nature of reality and how (or if) it can be truly known, questioning whether our perceptions align with an objective reality.

3. Media and Communication: In media, perception can be manipulated, which can affect public opinion and behavior. Critical media literacy helps discern between perceived narratives and factual reporting.

4. Social Interactions: Misunderstandings and conflicts often arise from differing perceptions. Effective communication involves recognizing and bridging these perceptual gaps.

And at the end of any situation we have to bridge the gap. This can be done by:

1. Critical Thinking: Questioning assumptions and seeking evidence can help align perceptions more closely with reality.
2. Empathy: Understanding others' perspectives can mitigate conflicts arising from perceptual differences.
3. Education and Awareness: Learning about cognitive biases and how perception works can help individuals better understand their own and others' viewpoints.


The tension between perception and reality highlights the complexities of human experience. Recognizing the differences and working towards a more objective understanding can improve decision-making, communication, and relationships.

AFTER ALL, WE ARE IN REAL ESTATE BUSINESS!

11 June 2024

Embracing Flux: Daily Dynamics Shaping Lives Across the Globe



In the intricate tapestry of existence, every day unfurls a new chapter, with its own unique blend of challenges, triumphs, and transformations. From the bustling streets of metropolises to the serene landscapes of remote villages, the ebb and flow of life manifests in myriad ways, each adding a stroke to the canvas of human experience. Let's delve into the kaleidoscope of daily changes shaping lives across the globe.

From our understanding and experiences we take each day as it is. We are not in control. We don't really influences the outcome. Our powers are beyond our control.

In 5 strongest point to ponder we look into:

Urban Rhythms:

In the concrete jungles that define modernity, life pulsates with an unrelenting energy. From dawn till dusk, cities throb with activity, as millions navigate through the labyrinth of their routines. Commuters jostle in crowded subways, office towers hum with productivity, and cafes buzz with animated conversations over steaming cups of coffee. Yet, amidst this frenetic pace, subtle shifts occur daily. New faces weave into the fabric of the city, businesses rise and fall, and neighborhoods evolve with the ebb and flow of trends. Each day brings a fresh cocktail of opportunities and challenges, shaping the urban landscape in ways both profound and imperceptible.

Rural Realities:

In contrast, life unfolds at a gentler cadence in the tranquil embrace of rural communities. Here, the rhythm of existence is attuned to the cycles of nature, as farmers toil under the sun, tending to fields that yield sustenance for their families and beyond. Daily life revolves around the seasons, with each dawn heralding a new chapter in the eternal saga of growth and harvest. Yet, even amidst this timeless backdrop, change is a constant companion. Technological advancements trickle into remote corners, altering age-old practices and opening new vistas of possibility. Meanwhile, globalization casts its net far and wide, bringing distant cultures and markets within reach, reshaping the very fabric of rural life.

Cultural Crossroads:

Across continents and time zones, cultures collide and intertwine in a vibrant tapestry of diversity. Each day witnesses a myriad of cultural exchanges, as traditions are passed down through generations and innovations spark new forms of expression. From the streets of Tokyo, where ancient rituals harmonize with futuristic trends, to the alleyways of Marrakech, where centuries-old craftsmanship meets the pulse of modernity, daily life is a celebration of heritage and innovation. Yet, amidst this kaleidoscope of diversity, tensions simmer and identities evolve, as societies grapple with the delicate balance between preservation and progress.

Global Challenges:

Amidst the flux of daily life, the world grapples with a host of pressing challenges, from climate change to socioeconomic inequality. Each day brings its share of triumphs and setbacks in the ongoing struggle for a more just and sustainable future. From grassroots movements mobilizing for change to policymakers forging new paths forward, the collective efforts of individuals and institutions shape the course of history. Yet, the road ahead is fraught with uncertainty, and the choices made today will reverberate far into the future.

With all this challenges( war, health issues, global warming, food, exchange rate and so on..) we remain stronger and focusing on the never-ending results!

Embracing Tomorrow:

In a world defined by change, adaptation is the key to survival. As we navigate the currents of daily life, we must remain resilient in the face of uncertainty, embracing the challenges and #opportunities that each new day brings. By fostering empathy, cultivating innovation, and nurturing a sense of solidarity, we can forge a brighter tomorrow for generations to come.

In the grand tapestry of human existence, daily life is but a single thread, yet woven together, these threads form the fabric of our shared humanity. As we embark on the journey ahead, let us celebrate the diversity of our experiences and embrace the flux of life with open hearts and minds. For in the end, it is our ability to adapt and evolve that defines us as individuals and as a species.

26 April 2024

Embracing Change: Navigating Life's Transformations

Change is a fundamental aspect of life, an ever-present force that shapes our experiences, perspectives, and trajectories. Whether it arrives as a gentle whisper or a tumultuous wave, change beckons us to adapt, evolve, and grow. In navigating life's transformations, embracing change becomes not only necessary but also empowering, leading us on a journey of self-discovery and resilience.

At its essence, embracing change is about relinquishing the grip of familiarity and venturing into the unknown with courage and curiosity. It requires us to let go of rigid expectations and embrace uncertainty as a gateway to new opportunities and possibilities. Just as a seed must break through its shell to sprout and grow, we too must shed our old selves to evolve and flourish.

Moreover, navigating life's transformations entails embracing the inevitability of change and re-framing our perceptions of it. Instead of viewing change as a disruption or obstacle, we can choose to see it as a catalyst for growth and renewal. Every transition, whether personal, professional, or circumstantial, offers valuable lessons and insights that contribute to our journey of self-discovery and self-realization.

Embracing change also entails cultivating resilience—the ability to bounce back from setbacks and adapt to new circumstances with grace and resilience. Like a tree bending in the wind, we must learn to bend without breaking, finding strength in our ability to adapt and persevere in the face of adversity.

Furthermore, navigating life's transformations requires us to embrace a mindset of continuous learning and growth. Instead of clinging to the safety of what is familiar, we must embrace the discomfort of growth and expansion, challenging ourselves to step outside our comfort zones and explore new horizons.

In embracing change, we also discover the power of vulnerability—the courage to embrace our imperfections and embrace our vulnerabilities, knowing that they are essential aspects of our humanity. By embracing our vulnerabilities, we cultivate deeper connections with ourselves and others, fostering a sense of authenticity and empathy that enriches our lives.

Ultimately, navigating life's transformations is a journey of self-discovery, resilience, and growth. By embracing change with an open heart and mind, we unlock the doors to new possibilities and experiences, allowing us to live more fully and authentically. As we navigate the ever-changing currents of life, may we embrace each transformation as an opportunity for growth, knowing that within every change lies the potential for renewal and transformation.

Above image was take from https://grainic.com/blogs/all/which-edible-seeds-are-healthy-and-how-do-you-eat-them

NB: Once you know about seeds and understand them, life will/shall be simple!






26 March 2024

Reading is like talking, understanding is needed on both side

 Reading is like talking, understanding is needed on both side. Reading without speaking out might be a conversation alone without the listener. Now, when you speak do you hear and understand yourself?

Reading is often likened to a conversation between the author and the reader, where words serve as the bridge for ideas to travel between minds. In this analogy, just as effective communication requires understanding from both parties, so too does the act of reading necessitate comprehension from both the author and the reader. Indeed, the true essence of reading transcends mere decoding of words; it hinges on the mutual exchange of meaning and interpretation.

At its core, reading is a collaborative endeavor. Authors craft their words with intention, weaving narratives, arguments, and insights that they hope will resonate with readers. They invest time, effort, and creativity into shaping their ideas, striving to convey them with clarity and resonance. However, the author's efforts alone are insufficient without an engaged and receptive reader who is willing to actively participate in the reading process.

Similarly, readers play a crucial role in the act of reading by bringing their own experiences, perspectives, and insights to the text. Reading is not a passive activity but an interactive one, where readers actively engage with the text, questioning, analyzing, and synthesizing information to construct meaning. Just as in a conversation, where listeners contribute to the exchange by listening attentively and responding thoughtfully, readers contribute to the reading experience through their interpretation and reflection.

Effective reading, like effective communication, hinges on understanding. For the conversation between author and reader to be meaningful, both parties must strive to comprehend each other's perspectives. This requires more than just surface-level comprehension of words; it demands empathy, critical thinking, and openness to different viewpoints.

Moreover, understanding in reading extends beyond comprehension of individual words or sentences; it encompasses grasping the underlying themes, nuances, and subtext of the text. Just as in spoken communication, where tone of voice and body language convey meaning beyond words, written texts often contain layers of meaning that require discernment and interpretation.

Furthermore, understanding in reading involves recognizing the context in which the text was written—the historical, cultural, and social factors that shaped the author's perspective and influenced the text's meaning. Readers must approach texts with a nuanced understanding of these contextual factors, acknowledging the limitations of their own worldview and being open to perspectives that may differ from their own.

In essence, reading is indeed like talking, but it goes beyond mere exchange of words; it requires understanding on both sides. Just as effective communication requires active participation and empathy from both speaker and listener, so too does effective reading demand engagement and comprehension from both author and reader. By fostering a culture of understanding and dialogue, we can enrich our reading experiences and deepen our appreciation for the diverse perspectives that literature offers.





14 March 2022

It matters once you can learn that TIME is everything

Thanks for the light I just recieved. You can spend your whole life chasing things which you deem to be important you will never catch up. Until you know who you are. Once you can discover the person in you and become one with the inner person then all will be well. For us to go on with one understanding can you please answer this question:

"Can you live without?"

A. Money?

B. Ground(Soil) you walked on?

C. Products and services made by other people?

Choose 1(A,B or C) and your explanation, then comment so that we can understand. 

Allow me to say, "What a new day, a new person and a new beginnings!"

The word NEW is powerful and energetic. Everyone want and is willing to be part of it. Now is the best time to harness and learn deeper about this powerful word. If and when properly used nothing will stop or cause a derail in your tracks. Everyday when I wake up I ask the sun not to set (go down), one day is one day it will be under my command. Today you are a new person who knows better than the person you were yesterday. It is said, "the older you get, the wiser you become." What motivates you to be who you are on a daily basis? Do you really need motivation?

Motivation is motivation and is like fuel(energy) into your vehicle. Likewise you can have top of the range car model with all technological advances but if you don't learn and apply what you have learned your car is useless. You need to find a driver so that you can advances your curiosity. You need to find people with the know how so that your car can reach its potentials. Just bear in mind that your driver will need remuneration. And if you don't have money to pay your driver then sell your car to the highest bidder. If there is no buyer then you can take it to the museum. Museums will offer great value(I mean money) when coming to your assets and/or collections. The ball is in your cord, do what is best with what you have and know.

We all have time and space at our disposal. That is all you need to reach your goals.

In respective of your perceptions if you can really look into details. You will always discover new things. We are so lucky because we live in an age of discoveries and knowledge. We are so connected and information is shared instantly live as it happens. You only need the willingness from within in order to get your ducks in a raw. My advice to you is that, "Alphabets are old and we use them to describe new stuffs."

Adding on what we already know, "60 seconds makes 1 minute and 60 minutes makes 1 hour." But, the way things are, it seems the hours has turned into been the seconds. For sure things has drastically changed, time is moving very fast. Today as you are reading this article you have just discovered new beginnings, new stuffs and you are a new person.

What makes 1 second? I can say 60 nanoseconds makes it.

25 March 2021

We are growing and connected!

We are growing and getting connected on a daily basis for 24/7. If you are not with us why don't you follow for more. We have all that you would like to know about all what you need. Today we would like to invite you on our additional project at Bene Ba EL. Once you read about what is on offer and still find that what you want is not on offer feel free to contact us. Even if you found what you want we still have more for special people like you.



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01 October 2020

Is your business inline and online

 Covid-19 has taught us new ways of doing things.  We have discovered that we really need each other to survive. In the side of businesses if you're not online with the trends in your industry where will your next business deal come from? Now that most people are working from home and you were surviving with direct marketing for your products and services how are you going to get to your consumers since they are not on the street? They won't see your billboards, poster, flyers and all the integrations which was going with direct marketing.

Don't worry, you have data, you are on social media and you have a website. This are your direct sales forces to enter into the home offices of your clients. The best is that they work 24/7 and the different is that you must respond on time in order to make it.

We are available to assist and offer our time in order for you to profit from this #online world. Just bear in mind that some of the jobs won't make it, soon we will be having new titles and new types of jobs. Watch the space in retail, transportation and internet so that you can adjust accordingly. Soon cars will be driving themselves - and flying, are you ready to adapt?


When we reach there our carports, parking bays in shopping malls, garages at home and so on will be outdated. Now you can see that the houses, buildings and what we see will have to undergo a major change.

 Allow us to leave it there, we like to hear from you.