The realities of life - perception is in control

 What is your perception? Is it in line with the general public.

According to us at #changinglife it can happen that we perceive the situation wrong at that understanding become the perception of the masses. Then in that case how will we move forward for the better.

In reality, is my understanding wrong or correct?

Let's explores the differences between how things appear to individuals and how they actually are. This dichotomy is significant in various contexts such as psychology, philosophy, media, and social interactions. Here's a detailed look at the distinction:

Perception is the process through which individuals interpret sensory information to understand their environment. This process is influenced by:

1. Sensory Input: Information gathered through the senses (sight, sound, touch, taste, smell).

2. Cognitive Processes: Interpretation of sensory input based on previous experiences, beliefs, and expectations.

3. Emotional State: Feelings and moods can affect how we perceive things.

4. Cultural and Social Context: Background and societal norms can shape perception.

Reality refers to the state of things as they actually exist, independent of individual perceptions. It is:

1. Objective: Exists independently of human thoughts and beliefs.

2. Observable: Can be measured and verified through empirical methods.

3. Consistent: Does not change based on individual perspectives.

For an example:

1. Optical Illusions: These demonstrate how visual perception can be misleading. For instance, two lines of the same length might appear different due to their surrounding context.

2. Social Media: People's online personas often present an idealized version of their lives, which can differ significantly from their real-life experiences and struggles.

3. Cognitive Biases: Biases like confirmation bias (favoring information that confirms preexisting beliefs) and the Dunning-Kruger effect (overestimating one's competence) show how perceptions can diverge from reality.

In all spheres of life there are variable, we can say in,

1. Psychology: Understanding perception and/or reality can help in addressing mental health issues, as individuals' perceptions of themselves or their situations can be distorted.

   

2. Philosophy: Philosophers debate the nature of reality and how (or if) it can be truly known, questioning whether our perceptions align with an objective reality.

3. Media and Communication: In media, perception can be manipulated, which can affect public opinion and behavior. Critical media literacy helps discern between perceived narratives and factual reporting.

4. Social Interactions: Misunderstandings and conflicts often arise from differing perceptions. Effective communication involves recognizing and bridging these perceptual gaps.

And at the end of any situation we have to bridge the gap. This can be done by:

1. Critical Thinking: Questioning assumptions and seeking evidence can help align perceptions more closely with reality.

2. Empathy: Understanding others' perspectives can mitigate conflicts arising from perceptual differences.

3. Education and Awareness: Learning about cognitive biases and how perception works can help individuals better understand their own and others' viewpoints.

The tension between perception and reality highlights the complexities of human experience. Recognizing the differences and working towards a more objective understanding can improve decision-making, communication, and relationships.

AFTER ALL, WE ARE IN REAL ESTATE BUSINESS!

Embracing Change: Navigating Life's Transformations

Change is a fundamental aspect of life, an ever-present force that shapes our experiences, perspectives, and trajectories. Whether it arrives as a gentle whisper or a tumultuous wave, change beckons us to adapt, evolve, and grow. In navigating life's transformations, embracing change becomes not only necessary but also empowering, leading us on a journey of self-discovery and resilience.

At its essence, embracing change is about relinquishing the grip of familiarity and venturing into the unknown with courage and curiosity. It requires us to let go of rigid expectations and embrace uncertainty as a gateway to new opportunities and possibilities. Just as a seed must break through its shell to sprout and grow, we too must shed our old selves to evolve and flourish.

Moreover, navigating life's transformations entails embracing the inevitability of change and re-framing our perceptions of it. Instead of viewing change as a disruption or obstacle, we can choose to see it as a catalyst for growth and renewal. Every transition, whether personal, professional, or circumstantial, offers valuable lessons and insights that contribute to our journey of self-discovery and self-realization.

Embracing change also entails cultivating resilience—the ability to bounce back from setbacks and adapt to new circumstances with grace and resilience. Like a tree bending in the wind, we must learn to bend without breaking, finding strength in our ability to adapt and persevere in the face of adversity.

Furthermore, navigating life's transformations requires us to embrace a mindset of continuous learning and growth. Instead of clinging to the safety of what is familiar, we must embrace the discomfort of growth and expansion, challenging ourselves to step outside our comfort zones and explore new horizons.

In embracing change, we also discover the power of vulnerability—the courage to embrace our imperfections and embrace our vulnerabilities, knowing that they are essential aspects of our humanity. By embracing our vulnerabilities, we cultivate deeper connections with ourselves and others, fostering a sense of authenticity and empathy that enriches our lives.

Ultimately, navigating life's transformations is a journey of self-discovery, resilience, and growth. By embracing change with an open heart and mind, we unlock the doors to new possibilities and experiences, allowing us to live more fully and authentically. As we navigate the ever-changing currents of life, may we embrace each transformation as an opportunity for growth, knowing that within every change lies the potential for renewal and transformation.

Above image was take from https://grainic.com/blogs/all/which-edible-seeds-are-healthy-and-how-do-you-eat-them

NB: Once you know about seeds and understand them, life will/shall be simple!

Life is always changing,be part of the changes

Sometimes we eat the seeds.
Sometimes we eat the fruits.
Sometimes we eat the leaves.
Sometimes we eat the roots.
Sometimes we eat what we can put our minds on.

We are not as we are,all depend on the environment we live in. we don't necessarily control the environment, we can only influence. We need to be good and act accordingly so that our influence to the environment doesn't act negatively against us.

I have also learn that there is no new place on earth. Where ever you go you will find people. the only new place you can be is a place where no man has ever been. and how will you know cause we don't know when did a man start walking our earth.

Be grateful for all the changes, they are for the benefit of us all. Just imagine if you where resisting your physical growth?

Life is always changing, be part of it.

As simple as it sounds and looks

Lets check how we understand and know ourselves as we may think. It always goes like this:

• Sighting
• Hearing
• Tasting
• Smelling
• Touching

With this you are a complete and able person. The issue remain at how well you use all your five senses. You may see and hear me badly then I won't look good. I may look good but when you smell and find a distaste smell then you won't like what your sight has just show you. What ever you taste may not feel good that day and what ever you touch may not feels good also in that day and this doesn't mean things are bad or good,what ever the case might be.

We create what we love and prefer. Work on that you will be amazed.

A well maintained balanced senses makes you a better person. We need to learn to maintain the balance so that our world can be a better one as we wish it to be. The first and most important thing we need to do is to know ourselves before we can know what is next.

There is one thing untold

We all need education to get ahead.
We learn skills, trade, theories and lots of stuff in life.
There is a foundation education and basic education which all of us have.

We only short one education to make it in life.

There is a mind school where you learn how to plan and follow through.

Here at #changinglife we have discovered that everything you need is within you.There is no need to knock at some one's door in search of good life,you have what it takes to be success.Create your own doors the world and the universe need them.

Give yourself time to think,learn how to think.

You are the greatest.

As it stand

On what are you standing as you are reading now?
Standing can be on your feet but not necessarily on your feet for the sake of life.
It doesn't matter what our eyes see or what we think.
Where do you stand?
What are you doing to make your standing place to last for your lifetime?
Do you prefer to stand for one second, one minute, one hour, one day, one week, one month, one year, one decade, one centurion, one millennium, one eon, one .....? so it goes.

It doesn't need you to read all the books or to possess all the knowledge and powers out there.It only need you to know where you stand.

For me by the breath I breath I stand.

What about you.

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Is it in the heart or in the mind

Life is so good,predictable and unpredictable. We learn lot of stuff almost every second. We choose to go with what we see and believe to be true and act accordingly.
There are systems,rules,content to be followed. We come up with what we see and think will get us ahead but we still stumble upon our own means.
As for our deeds and actions even though you act on your own and for your own benefits it is not like that.
Everything is interrelated and inter grated.
Please help me on:
-What is holding the universe?
-What is giving the sun energy?
-why we eat?
I hope we all know our physical body. Let's say your bones says that they don't want to be part of yourself,will you be you?

Stand out of this life.

You are very unique.You are the only one with the solution.You are the only one who has to do what need to be done.You must know that you are where you have to be,the only thing you need to do is to identify yourself-know who you are.Know what you need because most of us have all we want, the only challenge is we are not aware.
Are you aware that you are who you are and you are able to do what ever you want to do.The only different is that you hold something for us.You are the balance of the universal equation.You are very important in life.
There is always a way in every thing or situation you find yourself in.We live to assist each other.Just ask yourself this,"IF THE WORLD WAS FULL OF PEOPLE OF YOUR CHARACTER WILL IT BE GOOD?"Probably not cause what ever you are using right now was not initiated by you.

You are representing yourself on this world and all your action will come back and do you good.
Be grateful for every moment you spend.

2052 to 2081 to 3958(The coming years)

Where will you be when this happens?1945 has passed and 1970 has also passed.Mountains will fall others will rise,people will be at war and earthquakes will be every where.Be prepared for everything.When things change please adopt.The words and writings won't be understood.What you read today you won't remember 10 years later even tomorrow.How long will you be remembered?Whom in your family 200 years back do you know off or whom in your family 200 coming years will be known off?Do you think you will be known?Will your work and everything you do still stand?
Peace,wealth,success and good health be upon you.

What you see

Let us be honest on what we want in life.The world and everything belongs to each one of us.Who will bring food to your table?Who will lead you to success?who will give you better lifestyle?who will offer you a living faith?Who will offer you good understanding?Hope I find you well.

I'm in development and willing to assist people who are working and earning from R9500,00pm.

Is your credit at good standing?
Are you blacklisted or you don't afford?
Were you asking for bonds and  not assisted?
Are you renting?
How long are you going to continue like that?
You are welcome to come with any issue we will solve them.
We can not continue like this because we are destroying our home.
You are welcome to share you knowledge and skills.

Do you know that you can't stand all your action?
Do you know that you can't do everything alone?
Are you aware that all that you are using has been made by someone?
We are in this together-we live to share and assist each other.

Hope I find you well.
Be the best you can  be.
Your future starts today.

Good life

Every one of us want to leave better and better.Things that we do every time is for making our life better.In most cases we move to the opposite direction.What can be the cause? Firstly we spent more time at work than at home,we only go home to sleep.                                                                                                                                                 

Look and study or think about all the water which covers our planet and all life.What will be done or how will it look if there where no water?Again look at life which is hosted in water - all living species  it host either good and dangerous.We also drink and carry out our daily activities with water.We still drink this water even if is the homes of hostile and dangerous living creatures.We must take good care of water and all the balances in it.Tell us more about water,we will be very much happy to have an education about it and on how it hold life on our planet.
How is success measured?
Remember:I'm in residential property business,if you would like to know more about properties from owning,making improvement to your home and all related question I'm happy to offer what I do every day.We do have successful projects which I can refer you to see our success in building communities and families.You are more than welcome.

What are your responsibilities

Who ever you are,what ever you are and whom ever you are, what is it that you are doing?We are all different but common on the ground.What is it that determines our worthiness and wellbieng?Are you proud or happy on been who,what and whom you are?Do you sometimes look at what you are doing and have achieve so far?Are you happy with what you are having and more important with yourself?Is there something wrong with you?Is there something good with your.What has you done for your life and for life in general?

We are all in this together whether you believe or not.We help each other to breath direct and indirect.We are the survivors and we will continue to survive.This is our world and our life,so far it is not yet discovered if we can live some where rather than on earth.

Will you represent us all?

What is wrong with this road?Is it prevent you from achieve what is rightfully yours then it became better to make it unusable to the public?Good road well traveled will lead you to the right pasture.You have to be on the road to achieve what you want,but if the road is like this-I don't know.